Or my trusted childhood hairdresser who gave me a cut like Rod Stewart and sent me on my way.
But what about people I have got to know more closely? How many of them have I really got wrong? I like to think none. I like to think my judgement is good; that it can be trusted. That I am intuitive and discerning. Not blind or naive.
But no one is perfect so there must be times when I get it wrong!
I am struggling on this topic in relation to a particular person at present. There is such a dissonance right now between my understanding of them and what I am currently experiencing it is almost impossible to see how they can be reconciled.
So which is right? My past understanding or my current experience? Or both! Honestly I have no clue. I just know that ultimately my heart will reach the right conclusion, the true conclusion, regarding this person whatever that may be and in the meantime I shall just continue sending them love and light as I have always done.
Last night I slept with Hafiz in my bed. (He came at last!) I read his words out loud because they are the perfect antidote for pain.
Scratching my back
Can think of Hafiz as a divine
Who just keeps scratching his back
On the Moon.
O, I don’t care about your thoughts
Or what you have ever done,
Just open up this book whenever you are
For I love the way you
Bless that divine old dog!